You know I know I have expressed concern about this before but it is getting worse or maybe I am witnessing it more, however I was able to get another perspective from another woman from a different race. I had a conversation with one of my Hispanic sisters of how no matter where she goes if she is being served by and African American women it is usually not a good experience. This is embarrassing but I know it to be true. I ignored the coincidences for about 3 months of most of the black women I had encountered were angry, hostile, rude, bitter, numb and I could go on.. But this concerns me this is a plague that seems to be taking over the attitudes of my sisters. I really don't know where the anger stems from and why it is directed at strangers. I understand when you have had a bad experience with someone but to have a bad day every time I see you there is no justification in that to me at all. I know we all have crappy days but make a choice and get over it. Don't make every encounter a bad encounter just because "you" are having a bad day. I have seen women come in to work angry- angry all day- leave angry and come in the next day and do it all over again. What the heck is this about?? The sad part is they are only harming themselves-physically,emotionally and spiritually as life passes them by because they are angry and have these defense mechanisms that keep good people away. I say all this to say be aware of your attitude, be aware of how we treat one another. Forgiveness is good for the soul, love is great for the spirit and these are 2 things in life we all need. I love my sisters but they need some serious attitude adjustments and if this does not pertain to you then help those that it does.. I love you with the love of Christ.
